Speaking with my best friend today Thammi, he shown me how important just being open about your feeling are. Sometimes we don't need advice, shoulder to cry, moral support but just a ear that will listen.
It funny my best was sharing with me in the week and I automatically wanted to give him a answer to his sharing. But he was not looking for a answer just a ear. I was struggle with this as I am very solution oriented. It was only when I wanted to share that I saw the importance of just sharing and releasing the thoughts that might be plaguing your mind.
This brings about the importance of friendship, even as a male with have emotions that we must learn to share and feel ok to share. We are human with emotions and not some kind of robot. But i see very little is men who have friendship where they can share and be really open.
The lesson is it is good to share but also it good to listen and not speak unless some one has asked for your advice. Maybe they just want your eye
God Bless
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